Sex Tips

Doing the CAT position

Have you heard of the CAT position? A 2 inch adjustment can turn the position least likely to bring a woman to orgasm into one that will easily get her there. The missionary position often needs

Fun Facts on Men and Masturbation!

Here are some interesting things to keep in mind if your sex life is solo, guys: From WebMD
“Masturbation doesn't have the health benefits that sex does.
"It appears that not all orgasms are created equally," says Tobias S. Köhler, MD, MPH, an associate

Lube it up!

Here’s a sexy anytime show you can perform without any props but a nice hard cock and lubed up vulva! Straddle your guy with his erection between your legs. It’s easiest if you rest up on your knees. Then, glide up and down with your hands around it as you rub each of you to ecstasy.

Gift of Giving

The top selling gift of last December here at The Art of Loving was Gift Certificates. That’s our hot sex tip for the cold winter months

Weather Change

Anyone who has been tempted by a warming cup of soup on a winter’s day or a cold beer on a sunny one understands that one of the most powerful influences on human emotion is the temperature. This month, many of us are turning on the heat for the first time as the cold settles in.

Beyond the LBD (Little Black Dress)

Dressing up is the treat we look forward to this month and can be a powerful aphrodisiac year round. Even just ONE prop: a wig, a collar or a style of dress that’s a


You may have seen the hilarious video where a woman explains how to give your man an extra special hand job using a grapefruit. Like us, you may have thought it was a joke. I thought for a laugh I would blindfold my partner and try it.

Peace Out!

Try this finger trick on a woman when she’s on top and facing you: palm side down make a peace sign and slide it between your genitals (or dildo if you’re

Spank Away

Enjoy a good spanking? Try this addition to disciplining your female lover: Get the G-Spot nice and plump with plenty of good foreplay. Insert a single or double ben-wa style kegel ball(s) (The ones with a weight inside the ball) in the vagina.

The Sloooow approach

The Sloooww Approach. It’s all too easy to zone into your partner’s most erogenous of zones within the first few minutes of our clothes hitting the floor. Anticipation, though is one of nature’s aphrodesiacs and it’s easy to do if you just slow it right down!

Lusty List

Come and take advantage of the remaining books we have on sale for half off and try this with your partner: Choose a book that lists a range of techniques

Tonguing the bud

When you’re down there performing fellatio or cunnilingus on your partner, continue down and tongue the anus as you would the clit or cock head.


Shutting out a sense will heighten all others. Put a blindfold on your lover and grab some new moves to surprise him or her. Tickle His Pickle for his pleasure or The Lowdown on Going Down for hers are great book ideas and of course, the

Make Some Noise

Make some noise! Let’s hear some Valentine’s moans of pleasure. The hottest thing sometimes is to just let our primal selves out for a run. Who cares about the neighbours? Make them jealous. It’s the month of lovers after all! Sexy directives, dirty talk and sweet nothings to let your partner know


From the sexy pages of Cosmo, here’s your sex tip if you were born this month: “Chains and whips excite him. Yes, Capricorns are into S&M. Try doggy style, but keep your face down on a pillow. The hottest thing for him is to be 100 percent in control, and this position allows that. Just beware of possible

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