Challenge Accepted (Part 2)

Actually, yes. Yes let’s do that.

Have you ever faked an orgasm? I have! The first few years after I became sexually active were full of them.

Have you ever thought to yourself, I wonder if the person I faked an orgasm with has learned how to do such and such, or realizes that that’s not what women/men/etc need to have an orgasm? It’s very likely not.

Unless you think the consenting adults of your past would do something harmful to anyone, why not tell them?

I urge you, people of the world (who happen to read TAOL blogs), to contact your exes, the bartender you had a one night stand with, the guy you only went out with for a month because you had to continuously fake orgasms, and tell them. Say to them “Hello. Remember me? We had sex. Well, you did anyway.”.