Non-Monogamy Curiousity

Ever since the seminar with Mark, I've been curious about non-monogamy, but I'm constantly worried that it will make me feel like crap afterwards, and ruin my relationship of 5 months with my boyfriend who I never want to leave. He's mentioned the concept of threesomes before, but I have always been against it, maybe it's time to let go and possibly try it out.

I wandered onto the website called FetLife, and met an awesome dude on there who talked to me about his experiences with open relationships. He sent me this comic, which makes a lot more sense than trying to figure out what I want on my own, possibly it could help you curious readers as well.

I had no idea there were so many different types of open/poly relationships! I grew up being told that polyamory was disgusting (honestly, I don't want a relationship with more than one person, it would be nice to spice it up with a threesome once in awhile), but working here and being surrounded by so many awesome people who are in open relationships opened up my eyes to a whole new world out there, an awesome world.

I'm a bit too much of a chicken to actually go ahead with it right now, but, if you're thinking about exploring outside of your relationship, talk to your partner and ask what they are and not okay with. It could lead to an even stronger relationship, and you could both be so much happier.