What can be more frustrating than having no sex? Having sex that is over before its really even started! Men are most commonly blamed for this but you know, it happens with women too. The delay method is great for sorting out this issue among partners, if not to add another element to lovemaking.
The whole idea with The Delay Method is to prolong your session as long as you can without having an orgasm until the very end of course. This is most definitely not just for men. Quickies are great, but they definitely have their place in the world, and that place is not typically meant to be like a weed that you can’t get rid of.
Although The Delay Method itself is quite simple, actually following through with it once you’ve begun is the ‘hardest’ part. We all get comfortable with our routines and once we’re in a comfortable relationship, sometimes the sensual stuff gets forgotten.
So begin with some slow and sensual foreplay, touching and stroking all the sexy spots on each others bodies. Try a feather tickler across the nipples or gently roll a pinwheel down your lovers butt and thighs until your arousal is, shall we say, juicy. As the foreplay is revved up, be aware of signs of high arousal such as short faster breathing, muscles tensing and engorgement of genitals. If you think your lover is on the edge of orgasm, stop all stimulation/contact completely and just chill out for a few moments until both of your arousal levels are back down. And then resume. Repeat this a few times and push each other closer each time. Go ahead and move on to penetration, if you haven’t already, but always try and remember to slow it down before either of you goes over the point of no return.
We’re sure we don’t need to tell that it can be oh so tempting to just go for it and leave this advice by the wayside, but seriously, if you stick with it then please prepare yourself for what will quite possibly be the most explosive orgasm of your life. Seriously.