The Sloooow approach

The Sloooww Approach. It’s all too easy to zone into your partner’s most erogenous of zones within the first few minutes of our clothes hitting the floor. Anticipation, though is one of nature’s aphrodesiacs and it’s easy to do if you just slow it right down!

Don’t touch the penis, vagina, or the nipples until fully exploring and teasing other areas of their body. If you have a feather on hand or longer fingernails – play over areas with a light touch at first on parts that are desensitized - like the backs of the hands or shoulders. Slowly move into more sensitive areas such as behind the knees and inner thighs. A fun thing to wait for is when your partner is literally thrusting their hips into the air before focusing attention there!