9 KEYS TO GREAT SEX
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1. Get active! - Sex is a workout so get your body moving a bit so you can perform the way you want too in bed.
2. Practice! - Masturbate when you can so you can know what your body needs during partnered play. Once you know your ins and outs it will be a lot easier to tell a partner what you do and don’t like. Try reading this book to get some basics.
3. Value Enthusiastic Consent- Enthusiastic consent can be sexy as hell. Think “Do you like this” “Can I touch you here?” and all those fun questions that are really just dirty talk but can keep lines of communication open.
4. Coach each other- No ones a mind reader so walks your partner through what you want or have them show you something they enjoy. This could look like watching someone masturbate to see their technique or maybe you slowly walk them through how to go down on you how you like it.
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6. Think outside P in V- Penetrative sex is great but sometimes you can broaden your horizons a bit and try to spend some time on oral, digital or toy-based sex. This can keep things fun no matter how many times you have had sex with your partner.
7.Touch all over- Think outside of the regular zones of pleasure, kiss behind the ears or lick the small of your partners back. Ask them what feels good and learn about so many fun new spots
8. Cultivate Novelty- Try New things be it sex in a new room of your house or sex outside in the woods. Or you can try some new toys maybe something that’s a bit of a role reversal like a strap on.
9. Fantasize- Build a tool box of fun things you may want to try or just fun ideas that help to get you off. Wild or common its very healthy and can make your sex life better.
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Adapted from https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/all-about-sex/201711/the-9-keys-great-sex-in-relationship