Circumventing The November Feeling
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- By L
Call it what you will- a lot of us get a little down in this, the Thursday of months. Here’s how you can stay hot and raring to go.
Some call it seasonal depression, others call it “the only month without a fun holiday to look forward to”, but most of us can agree that November is a bummer of a month. It’s cold and dark and daylight savings time makes sure we see even less of the sun. But there are ways to stay hot and steamy during this cold, cold month!
Every November I get totally bummed out and feel like everything is so over forever- and I never put the pieces together. I never think Oh, it’s November, it’s cold and it’s dark, obviously I feel bad. I think Well, this is it, my entire life is officially over and I’m irreparably boned (and not in the fun way). Because of this, I’ve set up an email that I send to the future every single November that essentially says HEY I KNOW YOU FEEL BAD BUT IT’S JUST BECAUSE IT’S NOVEMBER! THIS IS THE NOVEMBER FEELING IT WILL END SOON! And then I remember that it’s just The November Feeling. There are so many things you can do to mitigate The November Feeling, though! And every year I rediscover them.
AMBIENCE
A nice environment makes for a nice mentality. Around this time of year I always add a new string of multicoloured LED lights to my living space so that the colour can be new stimuli for me. Another thing I like to do is light candles, which provide a gentle autumn feeling light and a nice smell to fill the air. Additionally, the massage oil candles that melt into a warm lotion take this to the next level so that I can have not only the feeling of a nice environment around me, but also seeping into my skin. That’s the kind of head-on direct approach to warmth you need to take to keeping sane and staving off The November Feeling.
WARMTH AND FRESH AIR
Speaking of warmth, this is a bit of a double edged sword. On the one hand, warmth is crucial to a comfortable November- however, The November Feeling preys on stuffiness and isolation, which is an easy trap to fall into if you’re huddling up alone in dimly lit environments surrounded by smoking candles. In order to not enter the isolated torture cube, you’ll wanna open your windows and let in what little sun and fresh air you can during the day. But of course, while that window’s open, you’re gonna be cold, right? Well fear not, we’ve got warming lubes, waxplay candles, and plenty of vibrators to keep you warm. Inhale that fresh fall air and bask in that sunlight while keeping yourself as warm as you need.
COMPANY
Company makes everything better, of course. Alone time is important, but it has to be balanced with seeing people you love. It may be easy to let seeing people fall by the wayside, especially right now when everybody is busy and the sun doesn’t stay up for long. But that just means you’ve gotta make the little extra push to get out there and see people. Luckily, we’ve made that easy as well, with our seminars. We host events where you can meet like-minded, kinky people and maybe make a new friend! It’ll get you out of the house and into some community connection, which is the best antidote to The November Feeling.
I hope at least one of these tips has helped! November is a bastard of a month, but we can always get through it together. And with a good orgasm.