CYBER SEX 101
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In the age of not being able to meet up with new folks for a fun evening many people have turned to digital forms of sexuality to get off. Maybe you’re an expert sexter or maybe phone sex makes you squirm, I always end up laughing, either way there are ways to explore while still staying safe.
Sexting- Think back to simpler times when sexting was still so exciting. It still is! If your partner is good with their words it can do so much. If there nervous ask them to describe what they wish they could do to you or try taking the lead and asking them sexy questions.
Phone Sex- Ah my old enemy phone sex. I can’t seem to get over the awkwardness of talking dirty without the person being there. But get out of that comfort zone if you are at all like me. Start slow and let a laugh out if you need to. If you normally do a lot of dirty talk in bed try to do the same over the phone. Close your eyes relax and enjoy.
Video chat- Video calls are great if seeing your partners face is a must. Set up a cozy setting with soft lighting and your favourite toys and put on a show. Ask your partner if they have any requests or ask them to do something you love. Play together taking turns turning each other on and getting lost in the fantasy.
Long distance toys- Having a toy your partner can take control of can change the cyber sex game. The We Vibe Chorus is a great option with long distance control. The Blue Motion Panty Vibe is also a fabulous option.
We are open in store but we can also ship any toys to you from our Vancouver based sex toy shop The Art of Loving.