The Ultimate Guide to Pegging your Boyfriend.

In case you somehow haven't heard, pegging is all the rage right now. People are going totally apeshit over it. And for good reason! It's wonderfully liberating to have this kind of sexual experimentation making its way into our boudoirs, don't you think?

But while pegging has become a media darling of sorts (thank you, Broad City!), the act isn't as prevalent amongst everyday people as you may believe. Shocking, I know -- but turns out strap-ons aren't flying off sex-shop shelves so everyone on Earth can give the next-level sex act a good old college try.

Conquering your man's backside may be chill for you; but he might be sketched out about you "compromising his manhood" or whatever. You have to tread lightly -- which is why we've created a helpful and practical pegging handbook. Lucky you!

From bringing up the *novel idea* in casual conversation, to anal sex positions for the uninitiated, here is the ultimate guide to pegging your boyfriend.

Simply put (and at the risk of terrifying you), pegging is penetrating someone anally with a strap-on. The name came from a poll hosted by columnist Dan Savage to describe this then-unnamed sexual practice. Pegging was the winning term, and the rest is... history?

Relationships are about open communication. If you want to peg your boyfriend or your boyfriend wants you to peg him (marry him), you should be able to discuss the pros and cons in a safe way. Pegging isn't (always) about being the overlord of your boyfriend's ass! It's about trying new and exciting things together in the bedroom.

If you want to try pegging, you're going to need to make sure everyone involved is on the same page. No anal play without the green light. Don't come in hot and buy a strap-on without discussing it beforehand.

An important rule of pegging etiquette is keeping it neutral. Broach the topic with care. Pegging is an experience that has to come from a place of trust.

I won't lie to you, few guys are going to be open to pegging (my current BF included). It's just not that normalized in our society yet. If your boyfriend is not down and cannot be reasoned with no matter how many facts you present, you have to let it go. Him doing it out of obligation won't be fun for either of you -- and pressuring someone into sex acts is always, obviously bad form.

Pegging is about you AND your man. Use "we" instead of "I" when you bring it up: "We should try this cool new sexual thing. It could be fun for us."

You don't want to terrify your boyfriend by acting like a Dom Queen. There is a time and place for that, but the time when you're trying to bang his bunghole is not one of them. OK?

 

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