Most people crave novelty at some point in their lives. When it comes to sex specifically, it's the reason people commonly want to try different sex positions, find new ways to orgasm, and introduce a myriad of sex toys into play. But how people spice up their sex lives is totally dependent on what they're looking to achieve.
Some people may be interested in trying BDSM because the power play sounds sexy; other people may want to engage in different role-play scenarios for the thrill. But regardless of how adventurous you want to be, allow us to put you on to perhaps the easiest way to spice up your sex life: temperature play.
I’m female and have never used a sex toy before. My partner is keen on experimenting but I’m not so sure. I think I’d like to try it on my own first but don’t even know where to start. Have you got any tips on what, how and where?
The timeless oral sex anthem, "My Neck, My Back" by rapper Khia, includes the renowned lyric: "Lick it good, suck this pussy just like you should."
But those who are inexperienced or perhaps uneducated may ask: How should I "lick it good"?
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Talking to partners about exploring sex toys does not have to be a daunting or difficult endeavor.