Pet play is a relationship in which the dominant person assumes the position of owner, master, or trainer, while the submissive person plays the part of a pet. These may be chosen according to your personality and requirements, much as other dominant-submissive roles.
Butt stuff is far from niche these days, as more folks with vaginas become interested in things like anilingus or rimming (aka anal oral), anal fingering, and good ol’ p-in-b sex. While all of these back-door sex acts can bring pleasure in and of themselves, there’s also something to be said for combining or pairing them with vaginal penetration, á la double penetration.
If you’ve ever dealt with sexual anxiety, you’ll know it's the last thing you want in bed. Even if the lighting is just right and the music is sultry, you’re hit with this immediate sense of panic and hypersensitivity, and all things sexy just start to feel wrong.
Talking about sex is hard. Telling the person you love that you're not happy with your sex life is even harder.
