I remember the very first night my partner went on a date after we opened up our relationship – it was one of the scariest, most exciting, most terrible nights of my life. I began the day feeling apprehensive and terrified, but pushed those feelings deep down until they became nothing but a slightly nauseous feeling in my stomach. Later, I was feeling excited and even, (dare I say it?), proud of myself for being so chill and cool with everything.
Something that I find interesting about sex and kinks is how it can show a very different aspect of a person’s character that you may or may not expect. One interest in particular I am always pleased if a bit surprised to find that my partners enjoy is pegging. It may just be the way our society stigmatizes males enjoying anal pleasure but I like to challenge that stereotype.
For a tragically long time, I was not a fan of shower sex. At. All. I absolutely refused to entertain the idea and dismissed shower sex as awkward and hyped up by movies and porn. I was much more likely to be found kicking my partner out of the shower for hogging all the hot water than getting down and dirty while getting clean.
I have been out on break from University for a few months now and you know what? I miss research papers! I never thought I would utter those words but art school has some great topics of discussion so my interest in writing them has grown. Today I will be tackling a topic a little more in the wheel house of our sex shop the Art of Loving here in Vancouver. All the info on the history of dildos I can source to http://allthatsinteresting.com/history-of-the-dildo#9 an article that helped this bit of research along.
You know how the saying goes; couples that play together, stay together, so why not invest in some fun toys for mutual pleasure? Because the only thing more fun than playing with your brand new sex toy is playing with your brand new sex toy in the company of your babe-friend.
