Sexual preferences are as diverse as the people who have them, but at the core of every predilection is the need (and right!) to feel supported, safe, and respected. So if you've tried some light hair-pulling in the past, and want to kick it up a notch but are unsure as to how to do so in a way that's safe and that will feel good for you and your partner, know that you’re not alone. We talked to sex educators to find out a bit more about hair--pulling and how to do it safely during sex so that everyone feels great in the process.
For as long as people have been having sex, people have been kinky. But if you're wondering what is "kink," it's is a broad term that is often misunderstood and stigmatized.
SENSATION PLAY is a category of play that explores sensations, whether or not they cause pain, such as temperature, fluffy, scratching, hot wax, tickling, electric, etc.
For some, especially for vulva owners, enjoying oral sex isn't easy. Why? Well, in addition to so many other gaps between genders like the pay gap and orgasm gap, there's an oral sex gap too — on both the receiving and enjoyment end of things.