In our western culture, if we are living in a fat body, we are not given “permission” to be a sexual being. I mean, when is the last time you saw a fat woman as the romantic lead in a movie or TV show? You can probably count on one hand when you have seen a woman of size enjoying romance or sex of any kind in a mainstream show or movie, right? Gabourey Sibide’s scene in Empire comes to mind. Sadly, there are not many more out there – yet.
Most of us at some point in our life may face different life changes, whether through aging or through different surgeries/health diagnosis that can all have an impact on our sexual health. Too often, this is a topic that is much ignored but vital to talk about.
This winter, the weather has been bitterly cold. Rather than warming up with a hot drink or an extra jumper, why not raise temperatures in the bedroom with a new position instead?
