There are few things that impress me as much as a very confident woman. It so happens that this also crosses over into sex and intimacy and does for many other people as well. Being a dominate female in other words a femme dom in regards to BDSM is something I had to learn over time and am still developing and improving.
I remember the very first night my partner went on a date after we opened up our relationship – it was one of the scariest, most exciting, most terrible nights of my life. I began the day feeling apprehensive and terrified, but pushed those feelings deep down until they became nothing but a slightly nauseous feeling in my stomach. Later, I was feeling excited and even, (dare I say it?), proud of myself for being so chill and cool with everything.
Something that I find interesting about sex and kinks is how it can show a very different aspect of a person’s character that you may or may not expect. One interest in particular I am always pleased if a bit surprised to find that my partners enjoy is pegging. It may just be the way our society stigmatizes males enjoying anal pleasure but I like to challenge that stereotype.
For a tragically long time, I was not a fan of shower sex. At. All. I absolutely refused to entertain the idea and dismissed shower sex as awkward and hyped up by movies and porn. I was much more likely to be found kicking my partner out of the shower for hogging all the hot water than getting down and dirty while getting clean.
I have been out on break from University for a few months now and you know what? I miss research papers! I never thought I would utter those words but art school has some great topics of discussion so my interest in writing them has grown. Today I will be tackling a topic a little more in the wheel house of our sex shop the Art of Loving here in Vancouver. All the info on the history of dildos I can source to http://allthatsinteresting.com/history-of-the-dildo#9 an article that helped this bit of research along.
