What is BDSM? Your Queer Guide to Kink, Domination, Bondage, and More
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Queer sex experts answer your most commonly asked questions about BDSM.
Queer sex experts answer your most commonly asked questions about BDSM.
Shame is powerful. And when shame starts to interfere with our self-esteem, our relationships, and/or our a/sexuality, it can start to take its toll. So many people told me about the depression, anxiety, isolation, and even despair that they felt around their kink – even though it wasn’t harming anyone, and it was 100% safe and consensual.
When I started seeking out community around kink, I realized every one of us has experienced some kind of shame or stigma.
In this article, Noah Redd, a genderqueer, kinky, non-monogamous, graysexual writer, shares some affirmations to help empower us all in reclaiming our kinks.
No need to hide what you’ve got. Take that book out of its discreet wrapping and let it all hang out – because enjoying the written word in all its steamy, salacious glory has benefits that last well beyond the bedroom.
Sex educator Karen B.K. Chan on how to turn people down directly and why it's important.
Is it really a case of it’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion in the ocean?